June 16, 2011

Testimony to Teaching





Never Would Have Made It Without You...
"Never would have made it, never could have made it,
without you. I would have lost it all, but now I see how
you were there for me." Marvin Sapp

The graduation ceremony at Andrew Robinson Elementary was comparable
to the commencement service of a College/University.  This was the intent
of Crystal Lewis Principal of ARE; from the model
of "College Preparation" that was a motto of the
year for all grades. Incorporating a frame of mind
for college, academic performance and
future acceptance in college. The level of academic
performance and ownership of learning;
the "NOW" No Opportunity Wasted initiative.

Learning is continuous and no opportunity is
wasted to provide instruction. The prominence of
the graduation ceremony inspired the
fifth grade students, parents, family members
and friends to continue high expectations of
success and high levels of academic achievement
for these graduates.

Ralph Waldo Emerson said it best, "What lies
behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters
compared to what lies within us." Similar words
of wisdom were shared by Fifth grade teachers
expressing their pride, joy and love for the students
and their achievement.

Graduation is a time for celebration of the achievement
of academic success, reflection of the school year
and commemoration by awards, recognition of the
hard work of students; the commitment and sacrifice
of parents and professionalism of teachers. During the
ceremony fifth grade teachers shared tidbits of
information about the struggles, accomplishments
of student; the times of laugher, study and even
times of tears. The hope is during these ceremonies
students understand the dept of commitment teachers
at Andrew Robinson Elementary put forth to prepare
them for challenges they (students) will face, not just
academically during their journey to college, but socially,
intellectually, morally and ethically.

Fifth grade graduations are not just a conclusion to
elementary school, but the closing stages of the
innocence that is found in many elementary school students.
The transition from Kindergarten through Fifth grade
for many students progressed at the same school.
There develops a bonding that extends beyond the
classroom for students and teachers. Teachers become
a part of the families of their student's; in some cases
teachers become surrogate parents of students because
of the amount of contact during each day.

Teaching is not a five day a week job, working
only eight hours, teaching core academic subject
areas. Teaching is a birthing process; the labour of
teaching with strategies, standard, rituals and routines
that must be observed to meet the objectives of each
lesson, the preparation of teachers through
lesson plans guided by state standards, assessment
data, administrative input, differential instruction.
Classroom management skills used to address potential
distractions to the learning environment as students are
guided to self control, self respect and self motivation.
Parental involvement is needed and sometimes
induced by behaviour challenges, academic shortfalls
and the concern of teachers that have high
expectations for all their students. Birth is a
developmental process just as education is; birth
encompasses the physical, emotional, and cognitive
aspects of growth and development. These elements
are the hard work that is involved leading to the birth.

The birth in education comes during the graduation,
when the diplomas are awarded, recognitions given,
experiences shared, prayers answered and appreciation
is given to parents and teachers for their love, sacrifices
and not giving up on students who struggled or who
"just didn't get it yet." The graduation (birth) is shared;
the students are now young adults progressing to the
next level of growth. Elementary school lays the
foundation for students not just at ARE, but at the
elementary level county wide. The memories will last
a life time and more will be added as students move to
Middle, High School and College or University.
Students and their families will move on just as in
other elementary schools, teachers
have completed another year of instruction and
reminded that the struggles are worth
the efforts they put in. That the hard work, long
hours, and sacrifices are justified.

Robert Louis Stevenson statement to teachers,
"Don't judge each day by the harvest you
reap but by the seeds that you plant."
Gain strength and comfort in knowing that teachers
are planting seeds for the future of doctors, lawyers,
scientists, teachers, preachers, Presidents, Mayors,
engineers, and for careers that have not been
discovered yet.

Education, Students, the Youth...
"Without education, you're not going anywhere
in this world." Malcolm X


Please view our graduation photos at:
Photos of ARE Graduation

June 14, 2011

Antibullying Strategies

ANTIBULLYING

These are links to support Antibullying efforts in schools, churches,
and community organizations.

I'm availble for presentations to any group that works with tweens,
teens, and young adults to dialogue about bullying.

The Blog sites are:
Bullying A Violation of Human Rights
http://jacksonville.com/opinion/blog/400553/william-jackson/2011-04-08/bullying-violation-human-rights

Bullying Resources
http://jacksonville.com/opinion/blog/400553/william-jackson/2010-11-17/bullying-resources

Bullying Continues to Grow
http://jacksonville.com/opinion/blog/400553/william-jackson/2010-11-05/bullying-continues-grow

Bullying In School and Cyber
http://jacksonville.com/opinion/blog/400553/william-jackson/2010-11-03/bullying-school-physical-and-cyber

Stop Bullying Jacksonville, Florida
http://jacksonville.com/opinion/blog/400553/william-jackson/2011-06-04/jacksonville-stop-bullying

Antibullying Presentation with just pictures and graphics

Antibullying Youtube Video
Four (4) minute video


William Jackson, M.Ed.
jacksonw@duvalschools.org

June 13, 2011

Divorced Fathers Can Celebrate Fathers Day


The actions of divorce force men to start over, starting a new beginning,
and rebuilding of relationships with children, renewing a father’s spirituality, and the redirection of personal priorities in life. No matter what cultural background, maturity range, salary scale or religious conviction, divorce can be overwhelming, demeaning, financially draining (especially if you are proving child support and or alimony), and a emotional roller coaster that never seems to end.


In Matthew 6:33 states, “..seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness..”, when searching for direction through this challenging
time. The best guide is the reading of the Bible and seeking understanding
of the Word. Reading and interpretation can refocus your life, redirect your spirituality in scripture and provides comfort and solace.
To see more: Click Here for Bible Gateway


Having gone through divorce it forced an understanding on what I need to
improve in myself, not focusing on the faults or shortcomings of others.
Not blaming, arguing about perceptions of right and wrong. The thoughts
and emotional turmoil of blame, anger, self-pity, shame and defeatism have
been cried over, cursed about and now distant memories, stored away in
a heart mending itself together. As a divorced father I questioned how
can I move on with my life, amplify my spirituality as a Christian man and
still be in my children’s lives being a positive force, being a role model, and support mechanism, these are my focus points. To achieve them I understand that I need to be a highly involved father.


Research has shown that being an involved father can be a big source
of healing for a man and children. Men need to re-bond with their kids
to help keep fathers motivated in fathering. This Fathers Day instead of
focusing on you refocus on the responsibilities of being a father, a man,
a role model, renewing and recharging the commitment and covenant
you have with your children.

Children are a blessing from God as written in Psalm 127:3, with this knowledge, children being blessings, men/fathers have a responsibility to be a part of children’s lives and accept them as blessings from God.
Children are not commodities to be traded, fought over, or bargained for,
their well being should be placed first during time of upheaval and emotional stress.


Children do not cause divorce, but are directly affected by it. Fathers Day is for divorced fathers because of the hard work and sacrifices that are required to stay in children’s lives. No one can take away that you are a parent and aid children’s growth in dynamic ways. A divorced father may not physically be in the home, but the teachings, modeling and prayers are present in children’s life. The essence of what is shared within children. As it states in Ephesians 6:4, “bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord”, the first responsibility that fathers must continue is to teach sons is to be respectful in order to get respect, the importance of education to obtain a career, provide for oneself and family and putting God first in all they do.

In being fathers in deeds and duties sons will follow as an example of behavior. In accordance with sons, daughters taught to be independent thinkers and aspire to be self supportive, not leaning on being reliant on any man to provide for them. Daughters will seek a man similar to their father’s actions, demeanor and emotional statues even if it is self-destructive at times. Fathers set the foundation on whom daughters will look for in a mate. Just as sons, fathers must teach daughters who will be mothers one day to put God first in their lives and seek Godly men. Not men who follow the latest trends in fashions, cars and other material things which are not long lasting.


Fathers must teach their little girls that they are empowered with dreams and aspirations to be successful and can achieve greatness.


Stated in John 10:30, “I and my father are one” Jesus makes this statement as a testimony to his father. The same holds true for fathers and their children, you are one in many ways with your children. Some of these ways are visually evident and some ways will manifest themselves as your child matures into adulthood.


Men and fathers have obtained wisdom that we should pass on to our children. In Proverbs 4:1-27 there is discussion of wisdom, gaining it through life experiences and reading of the Word. “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom…” (Proverbs 4:7), and share it so children will not make the same mistakes as parents have. Real fathers guide their children, helping them to “deviate from the possible path of the wicked, and not go in the way of evil men (ultimate self destruction)” (Proverbs 4:14).


This Fathers Day and beyond, be the father your father may not have been to you, be the dad that your children can be proud of and seek for guidance. Fathers this is your day to be recognized and no one can take that from you. Starting over is not easy, but the path can be peaceful, comforting and less challenging if we recognize the heavenly father first and continue to do the right thing by him and children. Sometimes doing the right thing is the hardest thing, sometimes doing the right thing is not the popular thing, sometimes doing the right thing will put us against what other people say, but at the end of the day what will our children and God say about you doing the right thing.


Divorce is not the end of fatherhood just a new beginning and an opportunity to grow, but with the proper guidance from God’s help. What legacy do you want to leave for your children? God Bless divorced fathers, they are still fathers and dads in children’s lives, divorced fathers must stay involved and in prayer for wisdom and guidance.


William Jackson, M.Ed.
William.jackson@ewc.edu
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